Men's Killer Online Dating Profile Tip!

Men's Killer Online Dating Profile Tip!

Are you dating online and not meeting the women you crave and would like to meet?

I know what you are going through and it can be a lonely place when you aren't getting the results you desire. In this situation you have to hang in there and never give up!

Tip #1

Test your replies from what you write in your first and second emails. Save your emails in a file and use the ones that get the most replies as templates...everyone is unique though.

Tip#2

You must comment on personal things she has written in her profile. To show you have made the effort to find out something about her.

And remember, nothing works 100% of the time.

I still scratch my head when a profile ignores my interest...and I match her criteria well...go figure.

I've just finished dating a lady and am back in the internet dating game...

And loving it...one thing about using online dating sites is that whenever you find yourself single, you can be comfortable in the knowledge that it is only a matter of time before you meet someone else.

Or just enjoy dating a few different ladies until you do...

It's the most efficient / effective way to date that I'm aware of...

There is a LOT of women using online dating sites. This is good news for us healthy single men who don’t like hanging out in smoky bars and clubs.

Attention!

I'm about to reveal a killer profile tip which I'm certain I've never revealed before.

I was aware of it but never really made the effort to use it.

As I was preparing a new profile name, photo and text to go back online, I decided to make the effort.

The results have been pretty darn good, and I've only been back online for four weeks or so!

It’s got the type of women I'm interested in meeting, to contact me straight away.

No messing about with virtual kisses and then me having to pay for the contact.

They contacted me and sent their mobile number with the email!

Yehaa! I like that… :-]

Are you ready, let’s look at it,

Here it is;

Men’s Killer Profile Tip!

When editing or making up your profile, pretend you are a copywriter.

By this I mean imagine you have been paid by a company to write a profile convincing a client to be interested in that company’s goods.

So to do that you need to tell the reader this;

'WHATS IN IT FOR THEM!'

Read profiles of men in your area and age group to scope out the competition.

Notice how often they use the word ' I.'

So you’ll see they are focusing on themselves, instead of the reader.

This is good for you, so that your profile will stand out from the crowd.

For example;

Instead of writing, 'I love going to the beach for a swim.'

Write it this way, 'Do you enjoy going to the beach for a walk and a swim?'

Subtle difference, but it works!

Instead of this, 'I like to cook.'

Write it, 'Do you like your man to cook for you while having a glass of wine together.’

Get the idea?

So why not edit your profile and delete as many ' I's ' as you can.

Or set up a new one on a different site and see the results...

You will notice the difference quickly.

Focus on what you think the type of women that interests YOU, would like to read and do.

I think you get the picture with this and I won't bother with endless examples.

This truly is a KILLER tip!

Try it out and good luck to you!

So instead of writing the word ‘I,’ rephrase it and use the word ‘you.’

Simple but effective and gets good results…

Until next time and more dating tips, keep smiling...

This articles quote;

‘There is always a way to succeed, if you are committed.'

All the best…

by: Mick Jones

Dating a Non Christian

Dating a Non Christian

Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? -2 Corinthians 6:14

Any way you look at it, dating can be tricky…especially when religion is involved. Being raised in a Christian home where tradition runs deep, you may find yourself in the midst of a major battle when your heart is given to someone with different beliefs. There is, of course, nothing wrong with dating a non-Christian, just keep in mind that you marry who you date. If this is understood, and you are truly willing to accept and deal with the repercussions, all the more power to you. All we suggest is that you consider a few things before jumping in.

What kind of dilemmas would you face in the future? Can a non-Christian help you spiritually, or will they gradually pull you down? It's easy to compromise your standards and beliefs in order to stay appealing to that person, but is that really being true to yourself? It shouldn't even be an option to alter everything you've based your life around because your beliefs have helped shape you into the person you are, the person that they fell for.

Then there's always the issue of children. What kind of foundation will their lives be built on? Would they be encouraged to attend church and live the principles that you live by, or will they be brought up in the middle of a constant tug-of-war? It general, it just seems to be easier on everyone, especially kids, when both parties follow the same rulebook. Then again, there are those occasional exceptions to the rule.

We've all heard different stories of Christians dating non-Christians who eventually do turn their lives to God. They later marry and have strong, happy relationships with values centered on Christ. Or, there are those couples that just don't let religion get in the way. Both are willing to compromise and let the other partner have their freedom to worship and live in a way that suits them. As promising as it sounds, though, it's not always realistic. Many couples involved in "dual-faith" relationships will find themselves buried in conflict and heartache at some point, causing them to break up or divorce.

It's to be expected that meeting new people, especially people that you're compatible with, is going to be challenging. But, consider carefully whether short-term gain is worth ending up with the wrong person. Falling in love is easy, but it's hard to imagine ever voluntarily walking away from the relationship because your partner's beliefs contradict your own.

The bottom line is that it's up to you who you date, because you're the navigator of your future. No matter who you end up with, you're bound to run into problems now and then. That just comes with the territory. From there, it's up to you what happens. You'll either choose to stick at it and work through the rough patches, or you'll decide it's too hard and back out. If it makes your decision any easier, just remember this advice: when a Christian and a non-Christian jump into a relationship, the scales are uneven and likely to tip!
by: Tracy Jones

Getting Back In The Dating Game

Getting Back In The Dating Game

I have bad news for you--if it hasn't already happened, some day a woman is going to break your heart. Yep, if you're alive, you're male, and you like women, some day one is going to break your heart. Although it can be mitigated, it can't ever be completely avoided, and how you respond to it will determine your success with dating women.

What I'm going to do today is tell you how to get back into the dating game--many guys screw this up, either jumping right back in and getting into the good ol' rebound relationship, or waste their lives mooning over the one that got away.

The first thing to realize is, no matter how much you use my dating strategies, if your relationship with a woman ends in a way you don't want it to (and this may range from her dumping you to her dying in a car accident), you're going to feel some pain, maybe some anger. You can't avoid that, so just accept it.

The worst of it will last about three weeks (sometimes more), and then it will begin to slowly dissipate. During these three weeks do NOT sit around and mope. Occupy your mind with massive action--work your ass off to make more money, hit the gym hard, do whatever you can to grab onto these powerful emotions and harness them. I've known many men who've started great businesses after dating a woman who figuratively kicked them in the teeth. Why? They harnessed their emotions and turned them towards creative means.

During this time I don't recommend you even think about dating or women. Sports, business, guy stuff, hobbies are all fine, but forget about women--they'll be there soon enough. The other thing to avoid is hatred. Be pissed off at what happened, but don't put it on her personally--you never know when she might come back.

After the initial feelings have dissipated a bit, you want to slowly start bringing women back into your life. I don't mean dating or anything like that, I just mean starting conversations with women. Talk to waitresses, bank tellers, saleswomen, and try to create initial attraction. Don't follow up, just get used to briefly creating attraction with all women. Do this for at least a month.

By this time the pain will be dissipating day by day--it'll still be there, but it will be less. The thing to do next is to start turning the initial attraction into meetings--coffee works best. Here you'll want to amplify that spark of attraction, and look for the opportunity to spend more time with her.

You should not be meeting or dating women who are looking for a serious relationship at this point. You want to meet women who are bright and fun, and who are out to have a good time. Nothing lessens pain more than having fun with a few great women, re-acclimating yourself to being in their company. Stay with this step as long as you want--I know a few knuckleheads who are blissfully "stuck" at this step, and that's OK.

Now you're to the point where you can decide for yourself if you're ready for something more serious. You've built a great foundation for yourself--you turned pain into creativity, learned how to create attraction for women, had some great dating adventures with some great women, and have the CHOICE of where to proceed next. Sounds a heck of a lot better to me than chasing some dumb rebound relationship or spending your life moping over the "one." She ain't the one, just the "last one" and YOU get to choose the "next one!" Take it from the King, the best cure for pain is planned action--you just might discover you came out ahead in the end.

by: John Alanis